✅Rule #1. You don't get tired of it.

A wife is not just a lover, it is, first of all, a person with whom you are compatible 24 hours a day. Whether you're healthy or have a runny nose, dressed to the nines or walking around the house in shorts and crocs, inspired or bored, your wife will take you anywhere.

✅Rule #2. A woman doesn't overwhelm you. And no one at all – that's not her way.

It gives you freedom, and you know it from the very first second. That is, she is already so much a person – no matter how old she is – that she is quite capable of not throwing herself at you. You are not a purse for her, but another person who needs to be treated with respect. If a person respects a person, that's what they call everything. Base.

If in the middle of a conversation with you, she, straying from a purring tone (already suspicious – what is she, a cat, or what?) starts yelling or hissing at the waiter, demanding a "clean tablecloth", you know-she will treat you about the same as soon as she does not like something about you. But you're not a waiter, you can't leave. It is clearly too early to talk about marriage here: the character will fail in the first few hours. You should be grateful to the universe for giving you a chance to look at it.

You just feel that you have been given an important place in your life, and that in itself is blissful.

✅Rule #3. Every time she opens from a new side, and it pleases every time.

She doesn't have to play all kinds of sports, write plays, or walk the runway to impress you every time, but – for some reason – every day opens her up so that you know she's inexhaustible.

With her, it's not just "not boring" – she has grown an amazing garden in which you feel like an invited guest. The garden opens its doors to you, and you enter it slightly woozy from the scents and walk around until you get tired.

She is a woman, she is the source of your strength, a secret refuge from the injustices of this world, which means that she is everything to you.

✅Rule #4. She merged with you voluntarily, being separate, and you accepted it because you really wanted it.

You feel that from some point on you form a single organism with her.

Even if she is, for example, a Muslim, and you are an inveterate Orthodox, this not only does not prevent you from being one, even in different parts of the world, but is a chance to open the world of another religion.

She is an extension of you, a Looking-glass that you will discover all your life.
She is infinite for you. You fall into it as it falls into you. Year after year.

✅Rule #5. She has no secrets hidden from you to your detriment.

This is a very important aspect: its secrets, which you have no right to invade, can not be directed against you. Sometimes her whole being is love for you, and your whole being is love for her, which does not deny the existence of the personal space of each of you.