Love easily and unintentionally comes, settles in the human soul, but, unfortunately, it can leave it forever at any moment, especially if there are grounds for this. Moreover, the difficulties of love can be experienced by both very young lovers and older people, wiser in terms of life experience. And only a few sages of all who once fell in love are able to carry their feelings safely through the field of their lives to the very end. Just do not think that love problems have bypassed them. Surely, they had a lot of them, only they found the perseverance and courage in themselves to resolve misunderstandings and were able to hide their treasure from the attacks of everyday life, someone else's opinion, the usual cowardice of the soul, in the end.
The most thankless job that one of a couple who has begun to experience love problems can put their ears to is listening to the different opinions of people who heartily distribute "valuable" advice on how to free the relationship from the crisis that has happened. Such information is valuable only from a person who is really wise and well versed in the complexities of relationships. It is easy to understand how right the mentor is - think about it, what is the life of the advisor? If this is a "loner" or a friend with several divorces behind him - the conclusion is clear, change the subject of the conversation with him. If you dare to follow the advice you have heard, your difficulties in love, problems in relationships with the "sweetheart" will soon disappear, however, as well as the relationship itself.
The most formidable threshold in the river of relations between lovers and even deeply loving people is a mountain of secret grievances, which can turn into Elbrus over the years of relationships, but which the other partner may not even guess about. Get rid of romance books and similar movies out of your head. It is only in them that those who love each other, understand the secret emotions of the halves at the slightest gesture, solving love problems and guessing about the desires of a partner only on a whim. In life, there are only a few people gifted with such a visionary talent, and 99.9% are sure that your "half" is not one of them. Accept his imperfection in this regard. Change your habit of being offended in silence, learn to talk to him about your own expectations and unpleasant emotions, and listen to his claims. Listen and speak calmly, trustingly and openly, as about those (much more secret!) Things that you have entrusted to your beloved one. Having overcome this very complex science, one can overcome the difficulties of love, because now two people interested in victory can fight the problems that arise.