Perhaps it is worth noting that when communicating at a distance, the effect of rose-colored glasses can be more pronounced — when we look at a partner not realistically, but prefer to rely on our own fantasies about him: at first, this effect is supported not only by hormones, but also by whether we have the opportunity to move into the field of real interaction or not.
When do you need to question whether a new relationship is worth your time and effort? First of all, focus on your own sense of comfort in communication.
Before you really delve into partnership interaction, answer yourself a few important questions:
1. Do you mutually take the initiative to communicate?
2. Whether in the course of communication to your interests and needs?
3. How often do you experience during intercourse with this man, embarrassment, shame or fear?
4. Respect your partner perspective on things, especially if it differs from his/her opinion?
5. Do you often abandon their plans in order to meet with the man when he comes towards you?
6. Can you be yourself in communication with him/her and feel comfortable at the same time?
7. Do you often see the coincidence of these promises and their implementation, can you trust the person and his actions?
If most of the answers to these questions are "no", then it is very likely that a long-distance relationship will not develop into a closer format.
In a long-term long-distance relationship, there must be an element of hope for compatibility — without this, they quickly come to naught.
Try to discuss the plans of each of you and look for intersections: if you are talking about a weekend or vacation, try to understand where to really spend this time together.