The family is not a place where everything is perfect, but where you will be forgiven.
To meet love, to get married is very important, but it is much more important to keep love and protect and save the family. My grandparents have been together for 62 years. They have overcame the hungry post-war years, raised the country and family, built a house. In 50 s years they traveled to build remote regions the country. They worked together, raised children, overcame difficulties, enjoyed life,suffered,loved and had own disappointments. I asked my grandmother many times if my grandfather was perfect, it turned out that he was not- he had his weaknesses, and, as often happens in life, men are more prone to temptations than women. How my grandmother managed, it turned out that the love and forgiveness of a woman is much stronger than man's weaknesses. And if a betrayal happens, only forgiveness and understanding of a woman can save the family. My grandmother gave me very valuable advice - a woman should always and as often as possible tell words of love to a man, and try to keep silent more in a conflict situation, and weigh every word said. Is this the formula of marriage?
Valeria