In the west, a woman who lives alone will be called rather free, while in Ukraine she will certainly be called lonely. Lonely is almost flawed. It is not prestigious to be alone in our country. A lonely woman often becomes the culprit of gossip and ridicule, as we ourselves often say and hear: "She is such a bitch because she lacks a man." In Ukraine, a completely different idea of self-sufficiency than in the West, and the absence of a family and a man, according to my feelings, is perceived in our country as a failure. And rightly so: there is no need to justify loneliness and attribute it to personal choice, this is not a choice, it is just a failure and a consequence of mistakes, laziness, prejudice and high expectations.

But are women really to blame for their loneliness? ... Many of our men suddenly decided that they deserve the best, that they do not want to suffer, and will not tolerate. After all, they are outstanding creatures, having stepped so far, capable of earning a lot. And as a result, they either do not find a woman under 30, being content with short romances, or by 30-40 they are already getting divorced, because their woman, in their opinion, turned out to be not the best, not the richest, not equal.

I just want to find a beloved person who will be next to me in difficult times and will support me. I ask a lot ??