For Those Who Never Tasted: 12 Things You Should Know About True Love
Most people live in hopes of finding true love in their lives. Maybe love only happens once. So how can we feel that love is real? BÜLENT
Love is a feeling that is defined differently for everyone. Every person lives a healthier life by reducing stress levels when they fall in love and have a healthy relationship, and this is scientifically proven information. You will feel better and more secure with the person you feel like experiencing true love in your life. Now we'll show you the symptoms that occur when you find your soulmate and experience true love. This way, you can find out if you can find true love in your relationship. Let's start!
1.Love not only shares good moments but also bad moments
If you are having a romantic relationship, this can go on forever, and studies on this subject prove this. However, the real meaning of love is the actions you do for you and for the other person. Love is not a noun, but a verb! If you come home tired and wait for an exciting evening instead of helping your partner, it indicates that something is wrong in your relationship and you are experiencing communication problems. If your partner always just wants to have fun, it can negatively affect you psychologically. The two of you must be in harmony.
2.True love is an action
True love includes good stages as well as bad stages. According to psychologists, it is common for people to feel lonely at times in their relationships, and this is explained as the loss of emotional bonds. If you both love each other, you should be focused on solving problems in your relationship. For example, in long-term relationships, couples can get help from psychologists or try to talk to each other more to solve their problems. Being with your partner is a step-by-step way to reach the future you dream of.
3.You both know your limits
A healthy relationship always has its limits. In such relationships no one tries to be a dictator and suppress their own will, there is a definite agreement between the two sides. If your relationship with your partner is purely fun, it will cause problems sooner or later. When you feel that you are going beyond each other's limits in a healthy relationship, you shouldn't hesitate to mention it. In this regard, therapist Bridget Levy also states that setting boundaries with the words "always" and "never" does not work. Of course, you need to be clear when it comes to limits, but be careful what words you use. Instead of banning something, you should speak more constructively.
4. You will have a common definition of "true love".
The concept of love can vary between couples. The true definition of love can be different for each couple. While some accept having fun together as true love, some accept living together at home as true love. You are having fun with your partner in the relationship, appreciate each other, spend quality time together and forgive each other… All of these may be telling you true love.
5.True love expresses common goals and aspirations.
It is very difficult to achieve harmony in the direction of common goals and desires in a relationship, but according to psychologists, you should know what you want first in a specific and realistic way. Do not forget to celebrate your successes together!
6. You share the responsibilities
It can be very unhealthy for you to feel that your partner is avoiding responsibilities in your relationship. It can hurt you if he says he will do something but not do it. However, true love does not hurt you, on the contrary, it strengthens you and makes you feel safe. If you think your partner is avoiding responsibilities, talking to him might be a very good decision. When both people share responsibilities, there is no imbalance and nobody feels like they are carrying a heavier burden.
7.You do not try to replace each other and accept with your flaws
This can be painful if you are an imaginative person and your partner forces you to change your favorite job for more money. In such cases, motivating them to get to better places is a more positive strategy than changing our partners. Support your partner for who they are and accept them as they are. This can take the relationship to a whole
new level.
8.True love has no place to play
Playing with your partner in a relationship, cheating on him, getting him into a love triangle can cause enough confusion. Manipulation is not the right choice to advance your relationship. You may choose to make your partner jealous, but they will never forget that you are doing it!
9.When you fall in love, you act like a team with your partner.
Of course, there should be special times in the relationship that you can devote to yourself and hang out separately, but there should also be issues where you will work in teams against them. 64 percent of Americans believe that doing things together is very important in the relationship. Sharing means caring. And caring is a sign of true love. For example, you are going on a long journey by car. Support each other during this journey. While one is driving, the other can make plans about their destinations!
10.You can download all your walls against someone who truly loves you.
We might think that being sensitive is wrong when the emphasis is on being strong men and strong women. However, we go through many tough things during the day and you may be vulnerable to the person you love.
11.When you fall in love, you become a better person.
You become a better person not because someone forces you, but because it happens naturally. There may be things like a healthier lifestyle, changing habits or renovating your home when you start the relationship. A better life could be a sign of true love.
12. You start trying new things.
When you are truly in love with someone, you can agree to do what you hate for them. For example, you try different cuisines together or you go to a dance class… LAST VOICE: REAL LOVE IS SERIOUS, ETERNAL, ETERNAL BULENT
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