Everyone around me seems so confident, like they've got this perfect roadmap for their life and they're just following it step by step. Meanwhile I'm over here changing my mind about what I want like every other week! Sometimes I wonder if that makes me flaky or if it just means I'm still discovering who I am? 🤔 My older cousin told me I should "know myself better by now" but honestly... how are you supposed to know yourself when you're still becoming yourself? I feel like I'm this unfinished painting and people keep asking me to describe what the final version looks like. I don't know yet! And maybe that's okay? Maybe it's even exciting? 💭 I see people who decided everything at 20 and now at 25 they seem kind of stuck, living out plans they made when they were completely different people. At least I'm giving myself permission to evolve, right? To try things and change direction if they don't feel right? I just wish it didn't feel so lonely sometimes, being the only one who admits she's still figuring it all out ✨ Does anyone else feel like they're making it up as they go, or is it really just me?