This text is about how society's expectations create the illusion that a woman should always be collected, confident and "iron". And about why sometimes strength is the ability to allow yourself to be weak.

Sometimes conversations about love come down to cliched phrases, but inside each of us there is our own definition. This text is a reflection on what we feel when we love and how we choose to stay close to a person.

It is these moments that have become a real gift for me - they seem to fill me from the inside and give a feeling of lightness that no parties or meetings can replace. 😊

I don’t know, maybe it’s just me, but when there’s so much noise and empty words around, I want silence.

As if it all boils down to a simple man looks, a woman listens. But what if it's not quite so? It seems to me that this is only part of the story, and not the whole point.

Space where you can breathe deeply and listen to yourself, without unnecessary expectations and compromises.

Wrote first - that's it, "she's probably been single for a long time", "can't keep her distance", "too clingy" or my favorite - "a man should do it himself". But what if he shouldn't? What if he doesn't want to? What if he just doesn't even know that you exist? 🤷‍♀️

Sometimes I think: maybe I'm just too romantic? Maybe men really don't know how to hold hands when they're scared? Don't wait at the door with flowers? Don't look into your eyes in a way that makes your insides clench?

In both the literal and figurative sense. Sometimes I look at men and feel: he is handsome, but tired. Tired of wearing other people's roles, expectations, rigidity.

I believe that somewhere in this big world there is a person for whom my eyes will become a home, and my embraces a place where it is always warm.

Do you know what this means in female translation? It means: "I've been wearing these same shorts since 2009 🕰️, and yes, I love them as much as my first car 🚗"

There is a special type of men. They don’t say tender words every five minutes, don’t throw themselves underfoot with confessions, don’t agree with every word. They are like pepper 🌶 in sweet sauce: they tickle your nerves, play on the edge, and that’s what makes them so damn attractive.

When a man says: “I love outdoor activities” 🏄‍♂️, I immediately picture mountains 🏔️, the sea 🌊, adrenaline, sun, wind in my hair… But it turns out that he has it simpler: he considers active leisure to be standing in line for milk 🥛 and a loaf of bread 🥖. And he stands confidently, like in a mountaineering team he holds the cart 🛒 tightly, as if he were storming Everest.

I don't mind if a man becomes quiet... but only at the very moment when he is about to approach me 😏. This is a special silence - thick, like the evening air before a thunderstorm ⛈️, when every second is taut like a string, and the heart even hears its own beats 💓. His gaze slowly slides over my face, lingers on my lips 😮‍💨, and the world ceases to exist...

Men, you are amazing creatures… 💫 You give me your heart in your palms 💝, then disappear so quickly that even Wi-Fi starts to miss you 📡💔. He told me quietly and seriously: “I’m worried about you”… and I almost believed that this was the beginning of something real 🌹. I imagined him next to me, his care enveloping me 🤍, holding my hand in any storm 🌊. But then — silence. Two days. Two eternities ⏳

There is one phrase that makes my eye twitch 🙃: “I don’t like drama.” And as life shows, it is most often said by those who then stage entire performances 🎬 with decorations, applause 👏 and final monologues for half an hour.

Not about big things, but about what seems important, but is scary to admit even to yourself. For example, love.

After all, when you post a photo where you open up a little more than usual, it seems like you're taking a step towards courage. But inside, there's a question: "Will anyone notice? Will anyone say it's cool?"

To have someone nearby with whom it is calm and easy. But then the question arises - what is this anyway? Love or just a habit? 🤔

You leave the house in a good mood, in comfortable but stylish clothes, your skin breathes after the morning care, your hair is in order, your gait is light after stretching, and inside there is such a pleasant feeling that you are in harmony with yourself.