I keep seeing this pattern, and it bothers me every time.

I've been thinking about this a lot lately, especially watching my parents' relationship.

It happened again today, and I don't even understand when this became my reflex. 😔

It's in the small, consistent choices she makes every single day that add up to creating a home 🏡

Christmas has so much noise around it – shopping, decorating, planning, all the external activity.

I go out to feed the animals while it's still dark, and there's frost everywhere, and the world is sleeping.

New Year and Christmas aren't about perfect plans or how things "should be." They're about moments 🤍 About laughter at the wrong time 😄, about warm hands 🫶, about conversations until the night 🌙, and about the feeling that you're not alone 🎄

Anything goes these days: 🥂 Eat an extra piece of cake, 🍰 Laugh louder than usual, 😄 Believe in miracles, even if you haven't believed in them in a long time. New Year's and Christmas are like a pause when life says, "Breathe!" 🤍

New Year's is a wonderful thing 🎄 Everyone suddenly becomes a little kinder 🤍, a little more cheerful 😄, and allows themselves to be alive. Even adults 😉

Refusing to pretend everything is fine is my greatest Christmas gift to myself. 💙

This year, my father decided on a particular style—traditional, elegant, simple. And instead of having my own ideas about what I wanted, I simply asked him: "How can I help bring your vision to life?" 🕯️

The mystery of the Incarnation becomes clearer when I sit in silence before the Nativity scene. 🕯️

Baking the traditional Christmas bread means remembering my grandmother's hands. 🍞

Waiting for snow on Christmas morning makes me feel like a small child again. ✨

You can always tell who's being genuine during the holidays. Some people light up when they see you—like your presence actually matters to them.

You can always tell who's being genuine during the holidays. Some people light up when they see you—like your presence actually matters to them.

I've been watching my mother arrange the nativity set for Christmas, and I realized I don't actually know how to do this myself. She makes it look so easy—the way she positions each figure, the way she creates a landscape, the way she tells the story through objects. But when I try, it feels awkward and unnatural.

The recipe is the same one my grandmother used, and her grandmother before her.

It hit me yesterday morning. I woke up and before I even opened my eyes, I could smell cinnamon and pine needles and something warm that I can't quite name.

There are men who disappear without explanation 🤐. They don't disappear forever, but rather retreat into silence. For them, it's a way to catch their breath 😮‍💨, clear their heads, and get through the day. There's no drama inside them 🚫, no final point, no decision to "end it all."