Because the topic is uncomfortable, and because I know someone will read this and say, "Look, even girls agree it's their own fault," and completely twist the meaning.

At the beginning of a relationship, we strive for maximum fusion. We want to know everything about our partner: from the color of his favorite children's toy to his phone password. We believe that absolute transparency and “dissolution” in each other is the highest form of love. However, years later, it is precisely this total predictability that becomes the main enemy of passion.

Not in a bad way. In a genuinely surprised way. Like — oh. That's me. That's still me.

Life in Oslo is calm, even a little meditative. Here I have time to listen to my thoughts and answer myself honestly.

There are places where time seems to slow down... and one of them is Neuschwanstein Castle. It was as if he had stepped out of the pages of a fairy tale, the very castle that we imagined in childhood, when we believed in princes, secret meetings and breathtaking love.

That's exactly how my morning started today.

Before Easter, everyone starts cleaning. House, things, closets. But there is something else that I want to clean more than anything.👀

Traditions do not disappear suddenly. They are erased quietly when they stop being passed on, explained and lived. The question is not whether they are important. The question is what you do to make them last after you. 🙌

Sometimes it seems like it's something real. And sometimes - that you just made it up yourself. That's why I want to talk about it so much...

Sometimes you think I'm somewhere far away... but it's just your imagination 😉

Have you noticed that dogs often look like their owners?😁 And it's not just about appearance.☝ Manners, reactions, even mood) sometimes it looks too similar to be a coincidence.

Most people are afraid of adopting a cat from the street. Diseases, character, "what if it doesn't get used to it". It sounds logical. But there is another side) and one that is talked about less often.

There are people who tell you only what you want to hear. 🙄There are those who remain silent so as not to spoil the relationship. And there is a family... that sometimes speaks harshly, but honestly. And there is one person who chooses not convenience, but the truth - even if it is unpleasant.🤫

Sometimes I am asked: “As a psychologist, is it probably harder for you to build relationships?” And every time I catch myself thinking — the question is not as simple as it seems. On the one hand, the profession of a psychologist seems to give an “advantage”: I understand emotions, I know how to listen, I notice subtle changes in behavior, I know how conflicts work. Sounds like the perfect set for relationships, right? But there is another side.

Sometimes it seems to me that love is not just a feeling between people 💫 It is spread everywhere: in the warm wind that gently touches the cheeks 🌬️, in the morning dew on the leaves 🌸, in the sun's rays that gently envelop the earth ☀️

I wish everyone a good and easy working week ☀️ May your mood be positive, your business be successful, and your smiles be as many as possible every day 😊

And before you roll your eyes and think: “Well, that's it, infantilism, thank you, goodbye” — let me explain for a moment 😄

It's amazing, but it turns out that the "reality branch" can switch within each person.

I want to tell you about this holiday and how we celebrated it✨🌹

Fear is a natural part of life. It appears when we encounter something new, important, or unknown. Everyone has at least once postponed a decision, doubted themselves, or turned down an opportunity simply because they were afraid.