This question is being asked more and more often, and it's not surprising. The world is changing, roles are being redefined, and societal expectations are no longer as clear-cut as they once were. So who is a woman in the family—a bearer of a "destiny" or someone who makes a conscious choice?

Distance by itself is not the problem.

At some point, responsibility stopped feeling like pressure and started feeling like clarity.

When I finally slowed down, I noticed things I had been ignoring. How often I made choices just to keep moving. How rarely I checked whether those choices actually suited me.

There was a time when chaos felt exciting.

Convenience is easy. You’re available. You’re kind. You don’t ask for too much.

For a long time, I confused attention with interest.

For a long time, I thought that tension was a normal part of relationships.

I’ve learned that wanting closeness and being afraid of it can exist at the same time

Mature love doesn’t arrive loudly.

Beautiful phrases. Big promises. Plans spoken with confidence.

There was a time when I believed strong emotions meant a strong life.

There was no single event that made it obvious.

For a long time, I believed that having a backup plan was a sign of intelligence.

There was a time when I felt the need to explain myself constantly.

Strength doesn’t cancel the need for connection. It just means you know how to survive on your own

At first, it felt like loss. Familiar places disappeared.

There was a time when the idea of starting over scared me.

What does a woman want to feel on a first date?

❤️❤️❤️As Valentine's Day approaches, I'm thinking more and more about love💖💖💖 Love doesn't ask for a passport, doesn't look at numbers, and doesn't adjust to age. It comes when the heart is ready. At 20, we learn to love passionately, at 30 – consciously, at 40 – deeply, and later – with special tenderness💖💖